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Engagement photos.

I almost didn’t do them.

I didn’t know what to do with them, had no intention of using them so wasn’t sure I wanted to waste our time and the photographers time taking photos. Since my surgery in November left me somewhat immobile, we decided to wait a few months which put us in the dead of what was suppose to be a Minnesota winter. I had no visions for our engagement photos so the thought of taking photos outside in white fluffy snow made no difference to me. In February, I started getting antsy and decided I wanted photos – I wanted to capture who we were, now, before we got married. I wanted to capture the love we feel for each other. I wanted to capture us.

Unfortunately, Minnesota has gotten a very limited amount of snow this winter leaving everything brown and dead-looking. Not picturesque. We tried to wait it out, hoping for a huge snow storm but got nothing.

So we did it anyway. We wanted very non-traditional. No hand-holding in a forest. No cheesy sitting next to each other, smiling & looking at the camera. No poses.

We went mid-week, after work. Instead of going to a park, or somewhere flowery, we went uptown. To the alleys. To the streets. To the restaurant where we had our first date.

And then, well, we just acted like us.

For more engagement photos, click HERE. Special thanks to Stuart, our photographer, who both Carlos and I highly recommend.

Wedding countdown: five months!

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Wednesday is a perfect day to start working for the week, don’t you think?

I really wanted to go back yesterday but after my doctors appointment, I still hadn’t showered and wanted to go home and clean up. By the time I ate lunch & showered, it was mid-afternoon so I just decided to stay home.

My doctors appointment went well – very well. Dr. Gervais said my incisions look really well! I have to wear the compression garment for two weeks which will be a little awkward since it is bulky but that’s the cost of surgery so I’m not complaining.

I have heavy swelling right above the incisions, especially toward my underarms. Hopefully this isn’t too graphic but here is a picture of my back:

There is clear tape over the incision, the darkish blackish stuff is dried blood trapped under (sorry, probably too detailed.) To help rid your mind of that photo, here is a photo from this past weekend when my nephew, Colton had come over. Colton wasn’t sure which toy Iggy wanted to play with so Colton piled all the toys up for Iggy to choose from:

I’ve spent a lot of time sitting in the chair with Iggy sprawled out by my feet sleeping…

and a candle glowing next to me while filling the air with a wild ginger scent.

I feel no pain in my back, none what soever. It makes me feel guilty, I’m not sure why. After a full day of work today, I’ll come home and sit in the chair the rest of the evening to try to balance out the day of movement.

I’m on limited activity for the next two weeks which is when my next check-up with Dr. Gervias is. I will go in on Thursday to meet with one of the nurses to have the tape removed but other than that, just try to stay still.

My boss and co-worker know about the surgery and have been very flexible and supportive during both surgeries. I’m looking forward to picking up now and moving forward through the next couple of weeks and months as Carlos and I get closer and closer to our wedding.

Until then, I’ll just keep taking it one day at a time.

 

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Oy, I gotta tell you friends, this surgery, compared to the surgery I had in November, has been so much easier so far! {knock on wood!} I don’t know why, but I feel guilty saying that. All went well for my surgery – it was 2 hours in surgery and 1 hour in recovery that flew by. Carlos and I got home around 3:30pm on Friday and I was wide awake. I didn’t feel groggy or tired at all, and wasn’t feeling any pain since I was pumped full of pain medicine from the surgery.

We watched t.v. until about 9:00pm and then, I went to bed. IN MY BED! You know why that is in all caps? Because I slept IN MY BED! I was beyond excited to not have to sleep in the chair this time. I slept in the chair for what felt like weeks last time. I was nervous this time because the incision is on my back but I can still lay on it, I don’t feel anything. I just sleep slightly elevated and all is well. I didn’t take any Vicodin Friday night, just some Tylenol PM and I was good.

I got up all by myself on Saturday, took my medicine and cozied up on the couch with Iggy until Carlos woke up.

I got slightly antsy Saturday afternoon but then remembered when the doctor had to stab me to drain the fluid last time so I sat down and didn’t move for the rest of the night until I went to sleep. I slept again with just the Tylenol PM, no Vicodin. Sunday, I was very good – I sat all day long and only got up to go to the bathroom.

Both Saturday and Sunday, I drank a lot of water and feel very hydrated. I haven’t been very hungry but Carlos is doing a really good job taking care of me and bringing me food. A couple of my sisters came over on Saturday but I decided not to have anyone over on Sunday or Monday. No specific reason, I wasn’t feeling horrible, just didn’t feel like having people over.

I don’t need as much help as I did last time. I can stand up by myself, go to the bathroom by myself, and do almost everything myself. The only thing I can’t do is lift anything. I have full range of motion with my arms but am trying not to move them too much since every time I do, I stretch my back slightly.

All in all, I feel amazing. I don’t feel like I just had surgery at all. My back feels like I got a sunburn but that’s it. I can’t feel anything under my arms and haven’t seen the incision itself, outside of pictures. The doctor told me to keep my compression garment on until Tuesday so I won’t see anything until then.

For those of you who want to see pictures, click HERE and use the password “graphic”. There aren’t as many pictures as last time but just as graphic so I didn’t want to post them in case some of you get squeamish.

I’m not sure I’ll update tomorrow because all I’m doing is just sitting here… nothing very exciting to report :) We’ll see if anything fun happens but the view from the chair isn’t very entertaining!

Thank you again for all the prayers and well wishes – I’m on the road to recovery and doing well!

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