The Day My Life Changed...

I started on my journey in August of 2007. For two years I fought, kicked and cried my way through losing 90+lbs. I was well on my way to hitting an official 100lbs lost by August 1st, 2009 which was my 2 year anniversary. I was planning a big 'ol celebration around here... until my life changed the evening before my final weigh-in. (Click here for more info).

Join me now, as I reevaluate my priorities, struggle to find out what "healthy" is while dealing with an emotional trauma, and continue to learn how to live a healthy life, no sugar coating included.

Nov 2, 2009

Motivational Match-up

I am 100% confident that each of you have helped me over the past couple of years because whether you know it or not, you have helped me be accountable to what I'm fighting for. There is no trick to losing weight, no secret I can share with you to explain how I did it other then the "accountability" factor (mostly to myself) and the importance of community.

On August 6th, just 6 days after my moms accident, I wrote about community (full post here). I was rereading that post the other day and something I wrote stuck out at me:

If there is anything I can tell you about how I lost my weight, it was by relying on community. When I was feeling stressed or ready to give up, so many of you instinctly rallied around me. When I shared a victory, you were right there to celebrate with me. That truly is how we continue through life. By supporting each other, by rallying around each other - good or bad. If there is anything I can tell you about how I have made it these past few days, it is by relying on community. We need to do that more.
I mentioned the other week that I was gonna jump on Ebay and get me some serious protective gear to help get me through the holidays, so I don't come out on the other side 20lbs heavier. I am completely aware that stress is gonna run high and food will attempt to be my comfort. But if I have my way, food will not be my reason to live. I need a partner. An accountability partner. A motivational match-up!

Friends, you wanna do this with me? Are you in need of a motivational match-up? Well I have supercalafragilistic news!

MizFit and I are partnering to match you up with someone, somewhere in the world to be your motivational accountability.

What does this mean you ask? That's the best part - cuz it's up to you & your partner! We give you a name & an email address and you define the rest! Be it a text, email, phone call, whatever!

Someone to check in on how things are going.
Someone to poke you when you need a poke.
Someone to pat you on the back.
Someone to give you a reality check.
Someone to send you a impromptu smile.
Someone to be part of your accountability.
Someone who gets what your going through.

If your game, send us an email to motivationalmatchup@yahoo.com with "Count Me In!" as the subject. MizFit and I will match you with a new friend, easy as pie!

Your deadline? Let us know if your on board by Sunday, November 8th. We'll introduce you to your motivational partner soon after!

AND...tomorrow is the last day to enter the Kay's Natural giveaway. Winner announced on Wednesday!

29 comments:

Marisa (Trim The Fat) said...

Looking forward to this!

biz319 said...

Morning Jen!

Love this idea - every bit helps right? You can imagine this new person saying "step away from the buffet!"

Have a great day!

Suzi said...

Great idea! I sent my email this morning. :)

suzi
pinkvanillacupcakes.com

{ALL} for a Better Life said...

Great timing!

kimert said...

What a fab idea!! Love it!

Lynsey said...

I'm in. Thanks!

TJ said...

Ya know what, this is a great idea, and it works! I already do this with a few bloggers and fellow weight watchers that I've met through blogging. Emails, texts and calls can be a real help to us when we are struggling.

:)

Syl said...

you continue to amaze me what a great idea....

yesican said...

Way to go Jen. Another great idea. I'm signing up.

Amanda (Two Boos Who Eat) said...

Great idea!

Dennis @ ironkettlebellfitness said...

Great idea to partner up with somebody to keep you motivated and on track to reach your goals. I've been in the fitness world for a long time and the most successful people are those who have a "partner in crime". We will often times accept letting ourselves down but rarely will be let other around us down.

A@ Please Don't Eat Me! said...

whooooo... i love the idea! that is a great one! you and mizfit are awesome!!

oh and good job on getting back into the training appointments- it was only one slip up! im sure it wont happen again! lol

MochaTrina@Me So Hongry... said...

What a super awesome idea! I am so game cause the holidays suck for me. My kids usually pull me through my holiday funks.

KK @ Running Through Life said...

Love the idea Jen (and Miz)! Support is key!!! I can't wait to participate.

Amanda said...

Love this idea! I need this right now~

Janna said...

You are just AMAZING! No other way to say it! Thanks for doing this Jen!

Jody - Fit at 51 said...

I saw this over at Miz & what a great idea! I left a question over on her end...

Diana said...

That sounds like an awesome idea!

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Bethy said...

I am in...started on Halloween..the journey to hundred pounds starts with a step, right? I took the step and here I go....will send my email when I get a second...I linked to you on my new blog - hope it's ok...

fattymcbutterpants said...

Love it, Love it, love it!!! Sending my email today!!!

erin said...

What a great idea!

Barb said...

Love it!

amanda said...

oh. i adore this idea, jen! how stinkin' cute.

The Jesse said...

what a great idea! and what perfect timing, just as the holidays approach!

Tasha said...

Great idea guys!! I'll be participating for sure =)

tuscanystone said...

yes, excellent idea and great timing Jen

Looking forward to meeting my new 'match'

Tusc :)

princessvalecia said...

this sounds super fun cant wait to meet up w/ my match!

Sylvia said...

I always thought it was neat to have someone that can motivate you but was outside of your home and workplace. Someone that you don't know sending you encouragement and telling you to keep working hard is a great influence!
-Sylvia
Illusione Cigars